Dame Aer - Air Pulse Clit Stimulator

Perfect For Satisfyer Lovers

As a connoisseur of air pulsation toys, I've discovered that I really love intense, surface-level stimulation. I don't like the thuddiness of Womanizer (and one We-vibe, the Melt) products, the intensity is so distracting that it actually prevents me from orgasming. However, I have loved both of my Satisfyer air pulsators (the penguin and pro 2) and Aer by Dame is very, very similar. It is less intense than the pro 2, I'd say the 5th speed on the Aer (which is the highest intensity) is in the realm of the pro 2's mid-range. But even though I crave very high intensity, which this toy only sort of delivers, I find that I really, really love this toy.

The Aer is pretty easy to operate, and it's really simple. There's a power button, an increase button, and a decrease button. The power button changes the pattern when tapped rather than held down, and each of the 5 patterns can be used on each intensity level, which I LOVE.

This is the first air pulsation toy I've had with patterns, which I know a lot of people aren't a fan of, but personally I love them on this toy. It keeps you very aroused and into everything that's going on, but it keeps your orgasm at bay, unlike with the Satisfyer pro 2 which kind of pulls the orgasm out of you whether you like it or not with very little warning. I'm not so much a fan of patterns when there's only clitoral stimulation, but with an internal vibrator, dildo, or partner, it's amazing to have stimulation that gives you moments where you can really feel the penetration without being distracted by everything going on with your clit. It helps me feel more connected to my partner and I feel more in control of when I orgasm, which is always a plus in my book.

The silicone on this toy is silky smooth, it doesn't really attract lint or hair, and the overall shape and design of the toy reminds me a lot of the We-vibe Melt. It's got a very soft, flexible mouth that's a decent size (I'd say my clitoris is a little bit bigger than average and it fits with room to spare) and the shape of the toy seems like it would fit well between two (or more) bodies during sex. The buttons are very well-designed, so you can tell where each button is and what they do based on feel, because you can't see them during use. The area where the charger connects to the toy was also incredibly designed; while the charger is magnetic, there's an indented hole in the toy where the charger goes so that it can't be bumped and disconnected on accident, which is a design I wish more modern toys had.

As far as volume, this toy is quieter than the pro 2, but that's not really saying much. It's.. average. It's a little noisy but by no means LOUD. I wouldn't find it distracting during sex. And, unlike most air pulsation toys, the Aer doesn't really seem much quieter when pressed against the skin, at least to me. However, as it's not too loud in the first place, I don't mind that. I'd say it's about as loud as someone humming; it's very easy to muffle with a blanket or some music.

The only complaint I have with this toy is that whatever glue they have keeping the silicone attached to the electronics is pretty weak, like when I was testing how flexible the mouth was, I heard a little bit of crinkling as the silicone came off the adhesive. I suppose it could be that the silicone is just so smooth that glue doesn't want to stick to it. This in no way affects the performance of the toy, however I did notice that the silicone mouth can peel away from the actual hard plastic so I am a bit afraid it may impact its water resistance. It's still a very minor thing and I don't mind it at all, it's more of a comment than a complaint. The only effect it has is that you can sort of pinch the silicone like skin.

TL;DR

If you like Satisfyer toys, you will like this. If you want patterns on an air pulsation toy, this is a good option. If you like Womanizer toys, meaning deeper, more thuddy stimulation, you'll probably be disappointed.
If you haven't tried any of the brands I've compared to, I'd recommend picking up a Satisfyer air pulsation toy (wait for a sale for it to be even cheaper) and see if you enjoy that type of stimulation. If you do, congrats, you can get this one and now you have a backup when you inevitably forget to charge your toy. If you don't like it, then you know not to get the Aer, and you'll save yourself $30-60 depending on the model you get.

Checks all my boxes

This checks off all the boxes for me. It has a nice large mouth. The material is silky smooth. I like that the handle makes it easy to maneuver around my tummy. It gets me off quickly.

Not my vibe

I was really disappointed in this toy. Even the lowest setting is significantly more intense than the first 3-4 settings on similar toys that I own. This, combined with the fact that the provided sensation is all "flutter" and not even one hint of "thud" - makes it a frustrating, significantly longer than average experience and with... sore results. It does not even begin to live up to basic expectations of other similar toys on the market.

It is louder than most, to the point of being distracting while in use, and some of the patterns make some pretty strange noises that are difficult to describe. Think alien spaceships, not those normal noises from breaking the suction seal.

While this is not something I would ever recommend to a friend, it may be more enjoyable to someone with harsher tastes when it comes to pleasure and craves really fast, intense, surface-level sensation.

With all that said, here are some pros:
- Some of the silkiest silicone I've ever felt
- Very lightweight, ergonomic, easy to hold and maneuver
- Comes with drawstring storage bag